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Yesterday I shared with you why I think it is beneficial to limit our kids’ clothes. Today I am sharing with you how I go about doing that! It is not wise to simply get rid of clothes without any method. Trust me, I’ve done that and invariably have ended up getting rid of something I truly needed. That kind of defeats the purpose.
Empty space in closets, rather than clothes spilling out on me, is less stressful. Use that as motivation!
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How can you get rid of clothes, then, and still be sure you have what you need? The best way I have found is to think in categories.
1. Everyday clothes:
This is what your child will wear on any given day. If you have a preschool boy, you can bet it is going to be jeans and a t-shirt. I usually choose clothes nice enough that we can run to the store in them, but easy to care for so that when they get a mud bath it is no big deal.
We have less than a week’s worth, but I would probably have one week as my target. Typically, if you are going to travel longer than that you will be doing laundry anyway, so this usually works.
2. Dressy Casual Clothes:
Yes, kids have these too!
This will sometimes overlap with the everyday clothes, but it is nice to have a few outfits that are a little nicer for those family gatherings, outings, or other events you might attend. This would be something like a nicer polo shirt for a boy and cute little outfits with matching tights and hair bows for the girls. You get the idea!
If your child goes to a school that doesn’t require uniforms, you’ll probably have the bulk of your clothes in this category, but you could probably have fewer items in the everyday category.
This will definitely vary depending on how much you go out, but think carefully about how much you really need. For us, 2-3 outfits is plenty. We don’t go out much, however, and since I have been doing this for a while, I am comfortable with it being pretty low. You might need more!
3. Church Clothes:
I have a small rotation of outfits for church or other special events. Think about how often you go and determine an amount that is good for your family.
Remember that less is more.
Think about it: Let’s say your daughter wears the cute, frilly dresses once a week on Sunday. If you have four dresses she will wear each dress once a month. That’s not a bad rotation. If you wear those dresses for six months before the seasons change, she has only worn them six times total.
That is barely getting your money’s worth out of them. Since dresses run at at least $30 unless you find them on sale (which I hope you do), that comes out to a full $5 per use.
4. Clothes for Specific Activities:
This will include any sports clothing or equipment, school uniforms, swim wear, or clothes designated for any other type of special activity. We don’t need much in this department yet, but I know that will change as my kids get older.
There is no specific amount of clothes that is right for everyone. The key is to know what you need and then stick to that. When new clothes come in either by gifts or purchase, something else has to go.
Sit down and think through what an average week looks like in your home and determine what your children truly need in the clothing department. Then set aside an afternoon to purge.
I recommend that if this is a new concept to you, you take it slow. Choose one category and then wait a few weeks before doing another. Or you could eliminate 2-3 outfits in each category and then, a few weeks later, purge a few more. If you have fifty outfits and trim down to ten in one afternoon, it will be too drastic of a change and you won’t see the true benefit of it. Baby steps is the real key to success here.
You will feel better when it’s all done and your life will be much easier. I promise!
Tomorrow, I will share with you how I organize the clothes for easy use by both adults and kids.
What method do you use to limit and sort through your kids clothes? Leave a comment. I’d love to hear!